Male Sexuality
Tidbits #1

1. I believe that circumcision of males shortens the penis length by 10 to 20 percent. There is no proof possible that this is true or false except that one friend of mine had himself circumcised at the age of 23 and came out of it with a one inch smaller dick. The process of circumcision as done by most MDs is done without anesthesia and causes great pain to the infant. Some MDs have said that the baby cries out because he is angry. BULLSHIT: IT IS PAINFUL. I suspect that the pain causes the dick to retreat to the interior somewhere and not want to come out again. The pain of the surgery can be controlled by acupuncture years later but it can be complex. Two acupuncture points that are often used are Spleen 6 (Sanyinjiao) and Spleen 9 (Yinlingquan).
   
   A visit to an acupuncturist could change your sex life.
   
   
2. Sexual molestation by mothers is common. One pediatrician told me that 90 percent of mothers slapped their son's hands and pecker when they touched their toy while being weighed (naked) - right in front of the pediatrician. My own mother indirectly told me that she had done this to me also. What I do know is that during 30 years of coming to grips with my own sexuality, the sensation of pleasure has changed dramatically 6 times!! Each time was an improvement and a joy to experience.
   
   Spleen 6 and Spleen 9 could be helpful here too.
   
   One man told me that his mother washed his pecker with a rough washcloth fiercely and hurt him a lot. He could not tolerate having anyone handling his peter, even caressing it.
   
   Sexual therapy for men is a necessity for many men.
   
   By contrast, one young couple I knew used to enjoy letting their baby son lie in the crib naked and play with his peter and giggle.
   
   
3. Acute sunburn before the age of twelve will make the penis be short a couple of inches. This observation comes from 25 years of medical practice and several years of being gay in New York City. This condition is particularly common in red haired and blond men who sun- burn easily. Current use of devices to enlarge the dick size are making this less of a personal disaster. Acute sunburn will also cause the orgasm to happen too quickly - within the first five minutes of sex-play. This condition can be treated in traditional acupuncture and/or herbalism.
   
   A lot of child beating, where the boy has no choice but to submit and conceal his anger at the parent, will cause the dick to become longer and bigger. Suppressed anger is a medical disaster even though a large dick is often considered highly desirable.
   
   Long-boned, thin men have big dicks too. (Swimmers, long-distance runners and basket- ball players are built this way, but their height is irrelevant.) This seems to be 'normal' with these folks who are built like string-beans.
   
   Reality says that the beauty of the dick is not in size but in sensation. If it feels good, all else is trivial.
   
   
4. At the base of the dick, on the upper side, exactly in the middle is an acupuncture point which makes the dick hard. Everyone who likes to suck cock knows right where it is and will put the middle finger on it while engaging in their favorite fixation. I would not recommend needles or moxa here but a snug cockring stimulates the point quite well.
   
   Another point is located at the bottom of the scrotum on/in the midline seam is used to treat limp-itis and sexual frigidity. Needles and moxa are used for severe cases but in milder cases a tongue will do.
   
   
5. At such times as it is necessary or desirable to interrupt or stop excitement, there is a point that will deflate you dick for a while but only temporarily. It has the advantage of increasing the sensation at the next exciting event. This point is located halfway between the a-hole and the very base of the dick. Some women call it the 'Tain't' Experiment with it often. This spot is much used in various Oriental Tantric practices.

(Written February '07)